Wednesday, October 31, 2018

Why are you going?

For the gastrointestinal distress, obviously.

No, seriously. I have had a lot of people ask me, "Why are you going to India?" I am not even sure of the whole answer yet, but I can share a little context to start.

Some people know that my life took a couple significant detours this summer. First, Mary and I decided to separate. It has been the saddest event of my life, but this is not the place to share those details. She is the kindest person I know and the best mom that Kate could have. Second, I resigned from my role as Superintendent of Schools in July. I loved the work and the people but circumstances over the summer made it all but impossible for me to lead effectively.

I suddenly had time on my hands with no job. I knew I wanted to take a trip. But where?

At first I thought about Copenhagen. Sounds great, right? Coffee and a croissant by a canal. Mmmmmm. Copenhagen would be safe and comforting, but that is not what I am looking for. Leaving my job was a professional shock and the ending of my marriage was a personal one, only a thousand times bigger. Its been like getting torn in half, and then looking down and realizing, despite the pain, that I am still alive.

Since I am still alive, I decided I need to finish the job. I have had a professional shock and did not die. I am going through a personal shock and have not died. Now it is time for a spiritual and cultural shock.

I am pretty confident that I won't die. How bad could the GI distress really be?

7 comments:

  1. I am so sorry that this summer was such a shock to the system.

    I hope the trip provides clarity and moments of wonder. I cannot wait to follow along.

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  2. Enjoy the journey....you not only will survive...you will thrive!!

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  3. Lol. Ask Miranda! Don’t eat any ice cubes or drink the water!

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  4. Chip, you are a mentor, a colleague, and a true inspiration to my professional and personal life, more than you would imagine. Carry on my friend, carry on. I will follow, as leaders lead.

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  5. Adventure away! Who knows what you will find. That's the best part. xo
    your sister.

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  6. India is a beautiful, soulful experience and an excellent place to reassess what you want to do with the rest of your life. May your journey be rich and rewarding.
    John Sanders

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  7. Paul and I have been thinking so much about you, Chip. And delighted to hear news of you - and not surprised that you would be drawn to experience a different culture. We have a close friend who was in India with the Peace Corps and, having fallen in love with the country, has returned several times. May you enjoy it fully too.

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